{"id":6507,"date":"2014-10-25T12:21:41","date_gmt":"2014-10-25T17:21:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/?p=6507"},"modified":"2014-10-25T12:21:41","modified_gmt":"2014-10-25T17:21:41","slug":"roommate-bonding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/?p=6507","title":{"rendered":"Roommate Bonding"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_6510\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6510\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6510 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/files\/2014\/10\/Screen-Shot-2014-10-25-at-6.04.54-PM-800x527.png\" alt=\"My roommate is Caitlin Selvaggi from Pennsylvania. During our first weekend together in London, we went to Brick Lane market and discovered a plethora of vintage stores and street vendors. At night, though, we got lost. Our neighbor Paul captured this picture of us attempting to interpret Good Maps.\" width=\"800\" height=\"527\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6510\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My roommate is Caitlin Selvaggi from Pennsylvania. During our first weekend together in London, we went to Brick Lane market and discovered a plethora of vintage stores and street vendors. At night, though, we got lost. Our neighbor Paul captured this picture of us attempting to interpret Good Maps.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Forced interactions with strangers can be very uncomfortable, especially if that first encounter\u00a0has you and this stranger sleeping 10\u00a0ft\u00a0away from each other. In college, the majority of students will have a roommate at least once, and the space shared may very well be very small. The adjustment of downsizing the square feet of your room is hard enough, let alone adding another person and their things. This is\u00a0true in the States and when studying abroad. Luckily,\u00a0most people who study abroad have been in college for at least one year, which\u00a0means that they will\u00a0have some experience with adjusting to shared spaces and new habits. The roommate situation won&#8217;t be a foreign shock. Student Sean Lechleiter says, &#8220;I&#8217;ve had a roommate for the past couple\u00a0years now, so my current roommate is just like all the other ones pretty much.\u00a0We respect each others&#8217; space.&#8221; However, one thing is most definitely different when studying abroad, and it works to the advantage of new roommates. When far away from home, people can become very disoriented.\u00a0Imagine the confusion of moving to a new country and trying to assimilate as quickly as possible before the experience is over. The classes are foreign, the street maps aren&#8217;t clear, the food is good, but you have no idea where to get it.\u00a0You and your new roommate are in this boat together. Feel free to lean on one another in the\u00a0beginning\u00a0phases of this process. For the first week or<i>\u00a0<\/i>two<i>,\u00a0<\/i>it is okay to be a new appendage on this random person.\u00a0When you want to explore, chances are they will too. Do things together because you may not know anyone else to do things with.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6508\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6508\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/uncategorized\/roommate-bonding\/attachment\/47a4ce36b3127cce98548a2ed1f100000035100aatgthk3cm3eg\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6508\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6508\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/files\/2014\/10\/47a4ce36b3127cce98548a2ed1f100000035100AatGThk3cM3Eg.jpeg\" alt=\"Caitlin and I joined a group of other students to take a day trip to York, England on October 11.\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/47a4ce36b3127cce98548a2ed1f100000035100AatGThk3cM3Eg.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/47a4ce36b3127cce98548a2ed1f100000035100AatGThk3cM3Eg-300x203.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/47a4ce36b3127cce98548a2ed1f100000035100AatGThk3cM3Eg-768x520.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/47a4ce36b3127cce98548a2ed1f100000035100AatGThk3cM3Eg-399x270.jpeg 399w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6508\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Caitlin and I joined a group of other students to take a day trip to York, England on October 11.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>For example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Get dinner<\/li>\n<li>Make a Tourist To Do list and go places day by day<\/li>\n<li>See a show! &#8211; Caitlin and I saw Gone Girl together and The Lion King (live). Both were so good!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Of course, after\u00a0going to orientation, classes, joining extra-curricular groups\u00a0and attending\u00a0events around the city, students abroad will start to get busy and meet more people.\u00a0With neighbors, friends from orientation, and people we see around campus, the list of who to call and hang out with\u00a0grows. I enjoy the company of my roommate, but I am so excited to\u00a0broaden horizons.\u00a0Roommates\u00a0do not\u00a0have to go every where together.\u00a0After a while, you can stop being that extra appendage\u00a0and start to see\u00a0other ways there are to explore the city you&#8217;re in.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6511\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6511\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6511 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.luc.edu\/goglobal\/files\/2014\/10\/IMG_8134-800x600.jpg\" alt=\"Caitlin joined a group of my classmates when we went to see The Lion King live! It was a beautiful show.\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6511\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Caitlin joined a group of my classmates when we went to see The Lion King live! It was a beautiful show.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In the past week or two (I am 1 month into school), there are\u00a0more invites out from classmates and the same goes for my roommate. She went to Brighton with friends from orientation; I went to an\u00a0open mic night with friends from class. When her friends invite\u00a0her to wine and cheese night, I don&#8217;t just follow her out the door, and I expect the same when I am invited out. Of course every couple of days out of the week, we make plans to visit a market or something, but being social in wonderful, new cities should not have to rely on one person. In other words, don&#8217;t\u00a0hang out too much because you&#8217;ll drive each other crazy!<\/p>\n<p>Other students have said:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Being a senior, it wasn&#8217;t fun haven&#8217;t a roommate because I&#8217;m used to having my own room and space, but it&#8217;s nice getting to know her. She&#8217;s peaceful and goes to bed early [laughs], so we get along.&#8221; &#8211;\u00a0Anatasia\u00a0C.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s\u00a0little things that he doesn\u2019t like or things that I don&#8217;t like, but we communicated those so it&#8217;s fine. Like, he doesn\u2019t like when I eat in the room, which is fine. I don&#8217;t understand why but I don&#8217;t need to know why.&#8221; Sean T.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s really nice always having someone to talk, to and she gets along with my other friends here [in London]. There&#8217;s never an awkward moment. My roommate and my friends get along, so to connect my friends to school&#8230; that&#8217;s nice.&#8221; &#8211; Valeria D.P.<\/p>\n<p>Until next time!,<\/p>\n<p>Lydia D.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Forced interactions with strangers can be very uncomfortable, especially if that first encounter\u00a0has you and this stranger sleeping 10\u00a0ft\u00a0away from each other. 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