Nails and Pictures!

This last Sunday, I went to visit my family and it was another exciting day. Last minute, Sammy and I decided we would create a calendar with them so we grabbed supplies and ran out the door. When we got there…as usual it was warm and cozy in their apartment. After our greetings we began to lay out all our supplies on the floor—sequins, fancy paper, ruler, scissors, etc.… The little girl was so excited. Everyone was really excited. Sammy decided to draw out the boxes on a sheet of paper—once she was done we found out that there were only 6 days in her week! After laughing for a while I thought we should create a giant calendar instead…so we cut out 40 squares and then gave them to our family. Each person took turn writing a number on it when we told them a number. It was so cute that the little boy—who I think is somewhere between 5 and 7 kept showing the mother how to write each number by writing it on scarp paper prior to giving her the marker. She thought he was mocking her and would playfully hit the boy. But the boy was a very good teacher…he did not laugh when teaching he was so into it. Our calendar making did not go so well…as we did forgot the tape and glue so we told them we would bring everything back the next time.
Then came, Sarah! She had a huge bag of nail polish with her. I felt kind of bad for the older son because this activity was not very user friendly. But it was great because everyone got their nails painted and designed by Sarah. The little girl loved the nail polish so much that she would keep erasing and redoing the nail polish. It was a lot of fun…. interesting thing was that they only wanted to paint one hand because they ate with the other. Sarah was so fascinated by this. I guess I would have been too if my grandmother did not do the same thing. I guess it is a cultural thing—personal preference.
Then I saw the little boy painting his own nails…since no one asked him, he decided to do it himself! I pulled out my phone to take a picture of him. Little did I know 1 picture would lead to another hour of pictures. The two little kids would not stop posing! It was so much fun!! The girl would want to copy her little brother but not do the same thing when he asked her. It was like she wanted to be the boss. He would pick up a newspaper cover his face and then she would do the same. The kept wanting me to take more pictures. I was sad to leave…but I hope I can visit them before Easter Break! I know that I will miss them.

Miscommunication

Unfortunately, Denise and I had to cancel our usual Monday night visit. Which on the few occasions has been completely fine, and Krishna is really receptive. However, this Monday was a bit different. Denise called and spoke with Krishna to let him know that we would be unable to come later that evening, which he said was completely fine the kids didn’t have school or homework; so rescheduling wasn’t an issue. Thinking everything was fine I went about my day as usual, until I looked at my phone around 8:30 and saw I had 7-10 missed calls. I was horrified and of course called back immediately, but Krishna must have gone to work, so I did not get a response. I listened to the voicemails, and it was all three of their kids asking where we were, and merely chatting about their days. I soon realized it wasn’t a big issue, and the kids probably just wanted to see what we were doing. I spoke with them the next day, and everything was fine. Crisis averted, just another lesson- always best to call a couple times and confirm. But also, not to freak out, miscommunications happen and are very easy to smooth over.